I’ve enjoyed your website and your wry sense of humour although I must confess I cannot understand anyone not liking music – how is it possible???? Good luck with whatever you choose to do. I guess you changing direction is better than waiting for the Universe to kick you up the b..t which has been my sad experience over time.

One last question if you have the time – this lunar eclipse will be conjunct my natal saturn at 26 deg Gemini in my 9th house. My Virgo sun in the 12th at 26 deg is square this presumably and Uranus in Pisces at 26 deg is opposing my sun is also involved presumably. Does this mean something will start to shift? Things have been very stagnant for me for quite a while or is it the usual hullabaloo about nothing?

Thanks. Again all the very best for Christmas and a healthy 2011.

Lana

Thanks for your question. I set up a horoscope for the time I read and understood your question, and I see that you asked your question just after a Full Moon.

As far as I can see, what you have just been through was pretty major, perhaps even a parting of the waves. You saw the truth for what it was, and the differences between you and your partner became very clear. Furthermore, you yourself are on the cusp of a big change, that might have nothing to do with the relationship, but which nonetheless could impact on it.

So overall I take the view that it’s probably unlikely that you and your partner will get back together, at least in the immediate future. However once you have take on board the changes you’re going through, there may be another chance. In fact, right now you need time on your own, so as to take on board recent events.

Having said all that, I don’t want to create any self-fulfilling prophecies, and it’s always possible that I’ve got it wrong!

I just stumbled upon your site and I’m very impressed by it! Quick question: I’m a Libra (Scorpio rising) who has just broken up with a Virgo (Gemini rising). Is there any chance we might get back together in the future? I’d really appreciate a reply if you have the time…

Thanks!
Sophie

How can one control or channelize the fiery Mars energy? I am a Virgo with Virgo ascendant and have got Mars along with Mercury in my first house. My communication skills are fine (or so I think) but when I am being confronted by someone, instead of handling the situation peacefully and tactfully, I sometimes completely lose control of my temper. My angry outbursts were lot more serious when I was younger and I was told that it has to do with the placement of Mars in my chart. Although I am more watchful of my reactions now, thanks to the maturity that does come with age sometimes (!), I realized I am still prone to such negative outbursts. Why does Mars cause this and what would be a good remedy for it?

Thanks
Vidya