Ning, thanks very much for your question. Which in some respects you’ve already answered!
As far as the astrology is concerned, it’s true that Aries and Leo can make for a great combination. They’re both Fire signs, and they know how to keep each other amused and satisfied.
However it’s more complicated than that, as you probably realise, and I think it’s important that you have a good understanding of your own star sign.
As an Aries you’re not the kind of person that enjoys waiting. You want action now this minute. And in terms of love, it’s not in your nature to hang around waiting for a partner who isn’t certain whether he wants you or perhaps someone else.
I should also say that for every Aries, selfishness is important. Normally selfishness is regarded as being a negative trait, but it’s actually nothing to be ashamed of. You’ve got your own needs, and you expect them to be satisfied. If someone isn’t prepared to answer these needs, now this minute, are they really worth bothering with?
You should also bear in mind that the Sun is a male planet. So many of the traits of your star sign are likely to be projected onto the men in your life. In other words, you could be attracted to a selfish partner, who only thinks of himself.
Which brings me to the subject of your fear – that even if you had a relationship with the Leo, he might at a later stage abandon you for someone else.
Such behaviour would of course be very selfish, but it’s also the kind of behaviour you might be attracting in your choice of partner. To be psychological about it, you’re not owning your selfishness, and you’re potentially allowing someone else to live it out for you.
I set up a horoscope for the moment I understood your question, and I get the impression that right now you’re feeling very confused about the situation, and you’re finding it difficult to think straight. And you feel a certain sense of powerlessness.
This horoscope wasn’t clear enough to give an absolute answer to your question, but I’m ninety percent sure that the situation you’re in isn’t desirable and isn’t going anywhere.
You therefore need to change course, and in particular, start living out your star sign. It really is OK to be selfish, and if the Leo isn’t committed to you – which, from what you’ve said, he’s not – then you should forget about him.
Instead start focusing on what you want, not what other people want. You’ll then find that your life becomes a lot less complicated and lot more fulfilling.
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