I’m an Aquarian who has had an on-off relationship with a fellow Aquarian. Our love is strong, and for the past year we have only seen each other a handful of times. That is the main reason for the on-off nature of the relationship. This is a relationship where sparks fly and there is an underlying raw passion. There is also an ex of his that keeps coming back into his life, so that has led me to take a step further back. He’s been hurt by past relationships in his life. Recently, he’s begun taking action towards getting a bit more in touch, including taking a trip up to see me next month. All this as “friends”. So is it possible for two Aquarians to find happiness and do you think that it’s worth hanging in there, or should I walk away from the love aspect and maintain the friendship? – Audrey, Pennsylvania

by Archie Dunlop on March 15, 2009

Audrey, thank you very much for your question.  I’m not going to give you a complete answer, or tell you how it’s all going to end up, because right now it’s impossible to be certain, at least from my perspective.

Nonetheless, when two people have the same star-sign, and their birthdays are only a week apart, there’s often going to be a powerful chemistry.  They may be very different people, but there’s an invisible link, which keeps pulling them together.

Yet in the case of a male-female relationship, it’s usually the woman who is most affected.  This is because the Sun is a male energy, and to an extent will be projected.  So your Aquarius Sun represents the kind of man you’re attracted to, and Aquarian men, with a birthday close to your own, will have a special appeal.

From what you say, your partner is more typically Aquarius than you are.  As far as I can see, he’s trying to be objective and he wants to be involved with people in a relatively neutral environment, without the confusion and chaos of strong feelings.

As to the current situation, I set up a chart for the time I got your question, and I believe that the situation you are in is about to change – one chapter is very nearly finished, you’re almost on the last sentence, and a new chapter is about to begin.  And it’s unlikely that things will pan out as your expect.  Matters are made more difficult by the likelihood that you partner is confused, and will soon have to face some kind of challenge, the like of which he might have never faced before.

I don’t think, in the short-term, that you can have much influence over the situation, and you need to be patient. In a few months time you’ll have a clearer idea about the way things are going.

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